
Coaching for Real Life, Real Growth, and Real Change.
11 Things I've Leanred In Coaching
October 11, 2025

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The answer is already within you- you just need a little help digging it out
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Other people’s opinion doesn’t matter – it’s just noise
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Excuses hold you back- and they are coming from you
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What’s wrong with doing it today? - if you’re not patient (like me) why are you waiting on yourself?
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Seeking validation might cause disappointment – it’ not about anyone else but you. Get it, do it and let the positive feedback come to you
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Journal! – I wasn’t a fan at first but this I exactly where I have found 80% of the answers.
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If you’re going to play the “what if” game play it all the way through – it keeps you unstuck
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Be integral about it, put in your best effort- nobody is going to do it for you
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Boundaries are your best friend – would you let a wolf into the chicken pen?
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Ready isn’t a feeling- it’s a decision. One you will probably make while you’re scared
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Being (and creating) your authentic self is the most fun, exciting journey you can take yourself on – only one you in the world, might as well be an expert on it